The Resource Setting boundaries with your adult children, Allison Bottke

Setting boundaries with your adult children, Allison Bottke

Label
Setting boundaries with your adult children
Title
Setting boundaries with your adult children
Statement of responsibility
Allison Bottke
Creator
Subject
Language
eng
Summary
All parents want their children to grow up to be happy, responsible adults. But in spite of mom and dad's best efforts, their most heartfelt prayers, and a loving environment, some kids never successfully make the transition to independent-functioning adulthood. The result is pain for the parents -- and often the repeated cycle of "starting over" that ends only days or weeks later in yet another failure. After struggling with her own adult son, author Allison Bottke offers a tough-love approach to parenting adult children that focuses on setting you free from the repeated pain of your adult child's broken promises, lies, and deception. The simple acronym SANITY provides a description for her six-step program: S = Stop enabling, stop blaming yourself, and stop the flow of money; A= Assemble a support group; N=Nip excuses in the bud; I=Implement rules and boundaries; T=Trust your instincts; Y=Yield everything to God
Cataloging source
DLC
http://library.link/vocab/creatorDate
1955-
http://library.link/vocab/creatorName
Bottke, Allison
Dewey number
248.8/45
Index
no index present
LC call number
  • BV4529
  • HQ755.8
LC item number
  • .B675 2008
  • .B66
Literary form
non fiction
Nature of contents
bibliography
http://library.link/vocab/subjectName
  • Parents
  • Families
  • Parent and adult child
  • Adult children
  • Intergenerational relations
  • Empty nesters
  • Adult children
  • Empty nesters
  • Families
  • Intergenerational relations
  • Parents
Label
Setting boundaries with your adult children, Allison Bottke
Link
Instantiates
Publication
Note
  • NOPDQ
  • "Six steps to hope and healing fro struggling parents"--Cover
Bibliography note
Includes bibliographical references (pages 213-215)
Carrier category
volume
Carrier category code
  • nc
Carrier MARC source
rdacarrier
Content category
text
Content type code
  • txt
Content type MARC source
rdacontent
Contents
The parent as enabler. "But I'm only trying to help" -- Why we enable, and why we must stop -- Get smart and take action! -- "But deep down he's really a good kid" -- The power of love and forgiveness -- The six steps to SANITY. "S": STOP your own negative behavior -- "A": ASSEMBLE a support group -- "N": NIP excuses in the bud -- "I": IMPLEMENT rules and boundaries -- "T": TRUST your instincts -- "Y": YIELD everything to God -- Developing an action plan -- Considering the consequences -- Other vital issues
Dimensions
22 cm
Extent
218 pages
Isbn
9780736976671
Lccn
2007019417
Media category
unmediated
Media MARC source
rdamedia
Media type code
  • n
System control number
  • (OCoLC)128237317
  • 1882310
Label
Setting boundaries with your adult children, Allison Bottke
Link
Publication
Note
  • NOPDQ
  • "Six steps to hope and healing fro struggling parents"--Cover
Bibliography note
Includes bibliographical references (pages 213-215)
Carrier category
volume
Carrier category code
  • nc
Carrier MARC source
rdacarrier
Content category
text
Content type code
  • txt
Content type MARC source
rdacontent
Contents
The parent as enabler. "But I'm only trying to help" -- Why we enable, and why we must stop -- Get smart and take action! -- "But deep down he's really a good kid" -- The power of love and forgiveness -- The six steps to SANITY. "S": STOP your own negative behavior -- "A": ASSEMBLE a support group -- "N": NIP excuses in the bud -- "I": IMPLEMENT rules and boundaries -- "T": TRUST your instincts -- "Y": YIELD everything to God -- Developing an action plan -- Considering the consequences -- Other vital issues
Dimensions
22 cm
Extent
218 pages
Isbn
9780736976671
Lccn
2007019417
Media category
unmediated
Media MARC source
rdamedia
Media type code
  • n
System control number
  • (OCoLC)128237317
  • 1882310

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